Valentine Wedding
Arch Of Swords: Walking
through an arch of swords following the ceremony was once believed to ensure
the couple's safe passage into their new life together.
Bells: The ringing of
bells after the wedding ceremony was intended to frighten away any evil
spirits that could destroy the happiness of the newlywed couple.
Best Man: In ancient times,
men would often capture women in order to make them their brides. A man
would take along his strongest and most trusted friend in order to help
him fight any resistance from the chosen lady's family or even the challenges
of other men who might have designs on the captured woman. Thus, this friend
was considered to be the "best man" among the prospective suitor's acquaintances.
In Anglo-Saxon England, the best man accompanied the groom up the aisle
so he would be at hand to defend the bride. Some modern day duties of the
best man include: making sure that once the groom has begun his journey
to the church, he does not return for any reason; arranging for the groom
to carry a small mascot or charm in his pocket on the wedding day; and
to pay the fee of the minister in an odd amount in order to bring luck
to the newly-wed couple.
Betrothal Ring: In the
early days of "marriage by purchase," the betrothal ring served a dual
purpose, including partial payment for the bride and a symbol of the groom's
honorable intentions. This later envolved into the engagement ring of modern
times. The custom of fashioning the ring to contain a diamond originated
in Medieval Italy and was once a lavish gift presented by Italian men to
their sweethearts with the belief that a diamond is created only within
the "flames of love."
Bouquet And Flowers: Flowers
are incorporated into the wedding ceremony as symbols of fertility and
to ward off evil spirits. Initially, bridal bouquests consisted mainly
of herbs and spices. The wearing of a wreath of Orange Blossoms (now the
traditional wedding flower) as a crown on the bridal veil was a Saracen
custom and used by the Saracens to symbolize chastity and purity. The evergreen
leaves of the Orange Blossom were also thought to represent everlasting
love. Soldiers returning from the Crusades are believed to have brought
the plant...and the custom..back with with them. Orange Blossoms were once
so expensive that only the wealthy could afford them. Generally, flowers
have been a major feature at weddings for centuries. By tradition, the
groom wears a flower which appears in the bridal bouquet in his button-hole.
This custom originates from the Medieval tradition of a knight wearing
his lady's colors as a declaration of love. Each flower possesses its own
meaning and displays a special message. Orange Blossom, for example, denotes
chastity, purity and loveliness. Some brides include a spring of live Ivy
in their bouquets. Ivy is representative of eternal fidelity and wedded
bliss. A popular tradition during Victorian times was for the bride to
plant the Ivy contained in her bouquet after the wedding and pass the resulting
sprigs from that same plant to her daughters and granddaughters for use
in their bridal bouquets. Peonies are avoided in some cultures as they
are thought to represent shame. Azaleas are said to symbolize temperance...Roses
to represent love...and Snowdrops to be a symbol of hope. In some cultures,
Lilies symbolize majesty, but are customarily believed unlucky because
of their association with death. By tradition, a combination of red and
white flowers is avoided, believing to be representative of blood and bandages.
Valentine’s Day arrives with
a cheerful and jolly mood for everyone.
Love and romance fills
the air, as the nature calls out to blissful happy times ahead. It’s the
season of love and hearts speak to one another creating the perfect ambience
for a Valentine Wedding.
So as you take the first
steps into your new life, let’s us help you arrange a fantastic Valentine’s
Wedding. With cupids, Valentine flowers and nice big Valentine hearts it’s
going to be a wedding that will remain ever radiant in your eyes.
Here is some simple yet
great Valentine Wedding tips and ideas. Just add the Valentine mood to
your wedding and let cupid work its magic into your lives forever.
Valentine Wedding Location
Well it’s a Valentine
Wedding. So it has to be romantic and cozy. So, while selecting your wedding
location, go for something that will provide an intimate and warm atmosphere.
Don’t go for an extremely small space and don’t go in for such a large
setting that there are miles between the guests. Leave some corners, alcoves
as romantic hideaways for guests to get the feel of Valentine’s Day. Light
candles at corners to give a romantic feel. You can even tie some heart
shaped balloons here and there.
Valentine Wedding Decoration
The main ingredient for
the wedding decoration is roses and more roses. Keep the lighting dim with
candles illuminating the place. The choice of fabrics should also be soft
and diaphanous. For table centers, small gold cupids in floral arrangement
looks absolutely marvelous. You can also tie large red or pink bows around
the backs of chairs. And finally provide containers for blowing bubbles
to add a touch of magic.
Valentine Wedding Colors
Color your wedding day
in red, as it’s the color of love, romance and Valentine. Mix deep burgundies
and maroons as well to break the monotony of a single color. To give your
wedding the magical and cloudy Valentine feel mix with regal blues, shimmering
gold, deep greens and rich ivory shades.
Valentine Wedding Dress
Set the stage for the
perfect Romeo and Juliet couple. For the bride go for a nice satin gown
with a heart shaped neckline formed by a deep V in the center. Flowers
just have to be roses. Go for deep red, the flower of love, or pure white
roses. Wear flowers woven into a soft, romantic hairstyle. Your wedding
jewelry should reflect the theme with hearts, roses, doves or cupids. Wear
rubies to complete the look. For the groom, a traditional black tuxedo
with a red rose adornment is simply dashing.
Valentine Wedding Music
Set the stage with some
romantic wedding music. Select some evergreen valentine songs. Get a live
DJ and band to perform for you. Slow dance tunes with soothing and romantic
music will bring out the romance in all your guests making it the perfect
Valentine wedding. |