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Massage
Techniques for Lovers
TOUCH, IT is SAID, is food
for our souls,
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The longing to be touched
remains with us as
adults, all the more so if we lacked tactile contact in childhood. Promiscuity is often a search for simple loving touch and a need to be nurtured, although in seeking satisfaction from meaningless sexual relationships a person may become unhappy and frustrated. Sadly, the mysteries of pleasuring one another through loving touch and massage have been greatly neglected, and the body's more subtle senses are relatively ignored. Aggressive visual and aural sensations dominate in many cultures, so that the more delicate levels of sensual awareness and receptivity have become dulled. Touch, the body, and pleasure have been too often subjected to moral condemnation or relegated to the sex industry to be exploited for image and profit. Even within a sexual relationship, the exploration of the senses and the language of touch, which can set the whole body alight , may be lost when sex becomes' a purely genital experience with orgasm and ejaculation the only goal in mind. Women are generally more
"in touch" with their
All of our senses, particularly
our skin responses,
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THE STROKES
OF MASSAGE
The following strokes form the basic techniques of a soft tissue massage to help you and your lover enrich your relationship through the communication of couch. If the mood of the massage is extremely sensuous, you may want to keep your strokes soft and flowing, using the flat of your hands to caress, slither, and slide all over the body. However, even during a very tender and loving massage, your partner may appreciate the addition of more invigorating techniques such as kneading. It is important that you blend the relaxing and revitalizing strokes together in a harmonious way. Play between the two types of movements, allowing one motion to merge into another as if you were creating a harmonious symphony of music on your partner's body. Let your strokes be fluid and never jerky, and always take them around or out of the body rather than stopping them abruptly in mid flow. Here are some of the various
styles of Strokes
SENSUAL, RELAXING STROKES
Here are a selection of strokes
which will begin
Fan strokes
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Place both hands close together alongside the spine so they rest flat on the body with the fingers pointing toward the head. Begin to stroke firmly and steadily up for about 6 inches, distributing the pressure evenly through the hands |
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Fan both hands out in a circular arc so that your Fingers embrace the sides of the body as they glide back down. |
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Swivel your wrists so that both hands sweep together at a lighter pressure back in toward the initial source of the stroke. Glide them a short distance up the body and, without halting the motion, begin the next fan stroke. When your fan strokes reach the top of the shoulders or limbs, sweep your hands in a rounded movement over each side of the body area to encompass its shape and glide back down the sides to where the strokes began. A fan stroke sequence can be repeated three times on any area of the body for a fully relaxing effect to prepare for more invigorating strokes. |
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Circle strokes are soothing and excellent for stretching the body's soft tissue. Use them on the back, front, and sides of the body. In this movement, only the left hand makes a complete circle, while the right hand makes a half circle. Use the circles to stroke the skin in a constant flowing movement. Rest both hands parallel and flat on the body, fingers pointing away from you. Begin to slide both hands in a circular motion. |
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As the left hand makes the first are of the circle, your right hand lifts off the body to allow it to circle over the skin. The right hand crosses over the top of the left hand and drops lightly back down onto the body. As the left hand completes the full circular motion, the right hand performs a semi- circular motion, retracing the movement of the left hand before lifting up off the body again |
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As your hands skate over the body, they can spread apart co cover areas such as the back and the legs at the same time and then slide together with the effect of many hands stroking and loving the body. This freewheeling effect on the skin is guaranteed to bring your partner out of his head and into his body as he surrenders himself to the sensation of an all encompassing touch. Stretch strokes are wonderful movements chat bringafeelingof length, expansion, body integration, and release of tension. Vary the pressure in your hands so that it is firmer as they move apart and softer as they glide back toward each other. The sensation you want to create is that of stretching the tissue out rather than pushing it back in toward the center of the body. (a) Mold your hands Into the body shape as they move out from the center of the back, one hand stroking toward the shoulder while the other moves toward the leg diagonally opposite. Use the flat of your hands, your forearms, or as much of your own body as is comfortably possible, to make skin-to-skin contact. (b) Back stretches bring a sense of relief to a tense area. Place both hands flat, with Fingers pointing away from you, on the center of the spine. Pressure on the spine must always he light. Glide both hands over the spine in opposite directions, one stroking up toward the neck and over the head while the other moves down toward the base. Rest both hands quietly over these areas to make a calming contact before bringing your hands back to the center of the spine. Now stroke your hands Firmly out in diagonally opposite directions so that one moves toward the shoulder and the other toward the opposite hip. Lightly slide back co the center of the spine and stroke both hands out to embrace the other hip and shoulder.
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Raking Touches Raking is excellent to use after a sequence of massage strokes co stimulate nerve endings close to the surface of the skin and to bring a sense of directing tension release out of the body. Let your hands become slightly claw shaped and use your fingertips to rake over the skin in short, overlapping movements, one hand following the other in a consistent downward motion. Rake from the top to the end of the limb or body area. |
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Feathering Soften your hands and use the fingertips to Stroke with the lightest of touches down the body in the same fashion as the raking movements. Feathering is particularly sensual and sends thrilling shivers through the body. Important Tips |
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Kneading Kneading should be applied after muscles have been soothed and warmed by sensual strokes. Follow up kneading which soft strokes. Kneading works best when applied in a constant rhythmic motion, with relaxed wriscs and firm, rounded movements. Its action should resemble the hand movements of a baker kneading dough, and its benefits include invigoration, relaxation, and the breaking down and removal of fatty deposits and toxins from the tissues. Kneading creates a satisfying feeling that the muscles are being firmly held and moved, and it certainly has its place in a sensual massage, particularly when applied over fleshy areas such as the thighs and buttocks. Use your right hand to lift, squeeze, and roll the flesh toward your left hand. Your left hand then takes the flesh and repeats the action by rolling it back to the right hand. |
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Pressure strokes push steadily down on the flesh by the focusing of weight into distinct areas of your hands, such as Fingertips, thumb pads, and heels, to remove a deeper level of tension from tight muscles. Apply them only when [he body tissues have been thoroughly warmed and soothed by other movements. Alternating fan strokes
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Vibratory strokes By moving both hands in rapid succession on the fleshy surface of the skin, you can stimulate your partner, boost the blood circulation, tone up the muscles, and leave the body glowing. Keep your shoulders and wrists relaxed as you apply these strokes and quickly flick your hands off the skin to achieve a percussion effect. These strokes bring an enlivening finish to your massage as you complete a sequence on a specific area. Follow them up with raking or feathering touches. Pattaya Beach & Bangkok |
Make loose fists and briskly pummel the flesh with the sides of both hands following each other in quick succession. Use pummeling on the thighs, buttocks, and shoulders. Hacking
WHEN TO SEEK ADVICE ABOUT MASSAGE
Remember, if you are in doubt as to the
suit-ability of massage,
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