THIGHS AND GENITAL AREA

The pubic hair of both men and women serves not
only to protect the genital organs from the effects of
rubbing together during the act of sex, but is also
supplied at the roots with some of the most highly
erotogenic nerve endings in the body. The arousal
response when the hairs are gently pulled, tugged,
and stroked is stronger in women than in men.
Blend your massage on this intensely intimate area
with caresses over the abdomen and thighs. 

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Every woman needs to be romanced. Feeling loved and appreciated can be a sexual stimulant to most women whereas the absence of passion in lovemaking can lead to a predictable sex life and the absence of female orgasms.

Romance
A man may feel that his wife or partner should be aware of his love for her because he has either married or made a commitment to her. So he may wonder why he needs to continue to romance her. Women whether married or single all need affection, tenderness and romancing. They need to be lovingly or passionately approached to get on the same level that men can get to with relatively little effort. 

Foreplay
Many women who have been in relationships for a long time have expressed the need for more foreplay. It is a fact that couples who have been together for a long time lose sight of how important the build up to lovemaking can be. Kissing along with other methods of foreplay are vital for female orgasm.

Approach 
A woman who has children generally feels overwhelmed by the neediness of her children. One child may be pulling on her to be picked up while the other is clinging to her leg. She may require extra tender loving care. She will not usually respond well to groping and pawing in the bedroom. Not many women enjoy being grabbed. Men usually make the mistake of going for a woman's erogenous zones prematurely. A woman's sexual appetite will most likely disappear if she is approached in an aggressive manner. 

There are many sexual enhancements aids such as scented lotions or aphrodisiacs that can be used to arouse a woman. Products like these can add variety and fun to lovemaking. 
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Many women do not experience having a female orgasm until their mid-twenties, and sadly others will not in their lifetime. Besides being pleasurable, climaxing has been known to benefit women both physically and psychologically in a number of ways. Frequent orgasms in women have proven to alleviate certain kinds of stress and eases menstrual cramping. 

Listed below are the most common barriers that prevent women from having an orgasm:

Mental distraction - She may have her mind on other things and lose touch with what's going on in her body. She may concentrate too much on how long it is taking to climax. The woman may start to feel anxious if she thinks it is taking too long and loses her ability to have an orgasm.

Cultural Issues - Some cultural attitudes do not encourage women's sexual pleasure. Women may feel guilty and feel morally questionable during intimacy denying themselves of natural pleasure. 

Sexual Abuse - Women that have been sexually abused often have a great deal of difficulty in allowing themselves to trust their lover and relax enough to achieve female orgasm. This type of problem usually requires counselling. 

Body Image - For some women it is as simple as worry about how they look in front of their partner. Cellulite, protruding abdomen, weight issues and cleanliness are real issues women are aware of during intimate encounters that may cause them to tense up. 

The Importance of Sex - Or lack of it could have a significant impact not only on a woman's ability to achieve an orgam, but on the relationshp itself. 
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Intimacy

A female orgasm is defined as the peak of sexual arousal that can send a woman's whole body in a series of involuntary, pleasurable muscular contractions. A woman's heart rate and blood pressure increases while her breathing quickens as the release of endorphins into her blood stream can cause her to feel flushed, giddy, warm or sleepy. 

Endorphins are chemicals released during orgasm, into one's spinal fluid that produce calming, pleasurable feelings. They are also known to help control the body's response to stress, determining one's mood. 

Positions
Although there are many areas for sexual arousal, the clitoris is responsible for sexual climaxing. All orgasms are really extensions of sensation from this area. Penetration is not usually enough for a woman to have an orgasm. The clitoris is not always stimulated sufficiently in the conventional sexual positions, so couples need to utilize more creative positions to better help a woman obtain an orgasm. Lovemaking involves knowing what each partner needs to be satisfied. If there is no honesty by both partners the trust and intimate connection will usually begin to fade.

Fantasies
Some women achieve orgasm through sexual fantasies. While the stimulation is psychological the orgasm manifests itself physically. Letting go and allowing oneself to fantasize and really block out any distractions can help those who find it difficult to experience an orgasm.

Mood
Setting the mood is a great way for a woman to really relax and enjoy being pleasured. Candles and slow romantic music may sound like a cliché, but it can really create a more enticing atmosphere that can result in achieving the type of intimacy needed for many women.

A female orgasm is different with every woman. There is not a set of rules to follow when it comes to pleasing a woman. What feels good to one woman may not appeal to another. Sexual intimacy happens when the lovemaking is pleasing to both partners creating a harmony and closeness and a sense of trust between two people. 
 

I've been married for three years now and have never had an orgasm, is this normal?
Many men and women do not realize that penetration alone does not usually cause a woman to climax. Most women need clitoral stimulation to achieve female orgasm.

I generally fake orgasms because I do not want my partner to think that he is a failure in the bedroom, however I am completely unsatisfied, what can I do?
If you are uncomfortable talking about this problem with your partner, and you know what it would take to be happier sexually, be more assertive in bed, guide your lover through the lovemaking showing him how you need to be turned on.

I am very self conscious about my body and feel tense in an intimate situation how can I loosen up enough to obtain an orgasm?
The proper lighting can increase confidence and help you to relax. Candles can help to hide some of your flaws.

My partner and I have tried lotions and sexual toys to help our sex life but they only remind me of the problem I am having, what other sexual aids are available that can help me to have an orgasm?
There are sexual supplements in the form of pills that women can take in privacy that are designed to increase blood flow and heighten sensation by activating the body's natural hormone production. By raising the levels of progesterone they enhance sexual sensitivity which aids in female orgasm.
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